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  • Kate 11:38 on 2026-03-07 Permalink | Reply  

    CTV has a story about a permanent memorial placed in a Pointe‑Claire park for a six‑year‑old boy who drowned there, 52 years ago.

    His mother is quoted saying there’s finally something to mark the spot where her son died.

    This strikes me as odd. Most people who perish in accidents don’t have permanent markers showing where they died, so how can it be an expectation? Sometimes when there’s a disaster there will be a memorial to the incident, but except for white memorial bicycles (ghost bikes), we don’t usually pinpoint the place where a person got killed.

    This isn’t to minimize the pain of the boy’s family, but wondering what the reporter was up to, writing as if it’s perfectly normal to expect a memorial where it happened.

     
    • Ephraim 12:41 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      So, the ghost bikes?

    • Blork 13:16 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      I suspect the reporter was just doing her job (assigned as something like “do a puff piece on this memorial”). But yeah, it raises questions. Maybe the reporter even raised the questions and they were cut in editing to maintain a puffy and sympathetic tone, which the boss probably prefers as it’s friendlier to advertisers. (This isn’t the NY Times after all; it’s local CTV.)

      On a practical level, I’m curious as to who paid for it. If it was privately funded then fine, no worries. But if it was publicly funded then that raises the question of why does this drowning victim get a memorial when the (likely) hundreds of other drowning victims in that area in the 50 years since (not to mention those who drowned before) don’t get a memorial?

      Maybe there is a good explanation. Maybe there was something about this case that stands out, like it prompted some kind of change in procedures or safety rules that has saved many people since then. That would be notable and worthy of commemoration, but if that were the case wouldn’t it be mentioned on the memorial?

    • Blork 13:38 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      A wee follow-up. This story has a surprising amount of coverage. I saw elsewhere that Pointe Claire borough paid for it. I suspect it’s a case of everyone piling on to a sentimental story that gives warm and fuzzy feels at a time when we’re all cringing over the state of the world.

      A CBC story from 2024 (link below) shows the plaque that was put up anonymously. That bit adds an interesting twist to the story and sort of hooks us and reels us in. Add the bit about the family declaring that they feel the city did not provide adequate support for them in 1974 and you get a bag of reparations deficit tossed into the mix. Stir all that up with a big dose of overall injustice anxiety and all it takes is a few minutes at a Pointe Claire borough council meeting and bingo, memorial.

      I don’t say any of this to denigrate the memory of that tragic event or the loss of the boy. It’s just a question of trying to understand where this comes from 50 years later.

      https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/montreal/mystery-new-plaque-montreal-1.7333285

    • Kate 14:05 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      Ghost bikes, yes, Ephraim – thanks. I was writing before coffee. I’ve edited.

      (I don’t know how long ghost bikes are expected to last. Walking around this time of year you can see what happens to bikes locked outside all winter.)

      I suppose, to me, that you have a gravestone, or you have ashes and place them or scatter them somewhere with meaning to the individual or the family. That’s where the memorial is, not on the location of their misadventure.

    • Blork 14:31 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      The difference in this case seems to be that, as a public memorial, it is a memorial to the event as well as to the person. As such, it’s the location of the event that gets the plaque. In other words it’s a memorial to the drowning and its effect on the community, not just to the passing of an individual. It would be weird for the city to just pay for a grave marker 50 years later; that would be a personal memorial not a public one.

    • Kate 16:16 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      As an example of that kind of thing, Blork, there’s the boating accident 70 years ago in which 12 kids from the Negro Community Centre day camp drowned off Île Bizard. That incident affected an entire community in addition to the families, so putting up a memorial seems more appropriate.

      Anyway, I’m not saying the memorial in this recent story was a misstep, or begrudging it of the relatives, only that the tone of the article – that it was long past due and so on – struck me as unusual.

    • R T 21:56 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      The unspoken thing about the ghost bikes is that they are political statements as much as they are memorials; they tell the world “someone died here” and implicitly tell the world “and they didn’t have to”.

    • AMF 07:15 on 2026-03-08 Permalink

      There’s a mural in memorial of the children who died in the boating accident near Île Bizard in the Union United Church courtyard, and a plaque by the site where it happened.

    • Margaret Black 08:34 on 2026-03-08 Permalink

      Here in Boucherville, we have a plaque on site and an Aquatic Centre named for Laurie-Eve Cormier, who was killed at our smaller outdoor public pool while serving as a lifeguard in 2013. She was working to evacuate the children at the pool when a sudden intense thunderstorm brought down a large nearby tree.

    • Kate 09:27 on 2026-03-08 Permalink

      Margaret Black, but that plaque recognizes a person who died saving others, which is notable in a different way.

      R T : Very good point.

  • Kate 10:56 on 2026-03-07 Permalink | Reply  

    It was only in 1964 that women in Quebec were accorded the rights we now expect as adult humans in society: they could not sign a contract, practice a profession or initiate legal proceedings unless their husband gave his assent.

    The change in the law, led by Marie‑Claire Kirkland, is being hailed as a historic moment in Quebec history.

    Tangentially, a worldwide study shows that one third of Generation Z* men feel that women should obey their husbands.

    * men born roughly from 1997 to 2012

     
    • saintlaurent 11:36 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      It might be somewhat more instructive to look at the more granular survey data, rather than the somewhat clickbait-y headline.

      https://www.kcl.ac.uk/assets/news/iwd-2026-global-charts-final.pdf

      That one-third figure represents a 29-country average, that includes such notable bastions of feminism such ask Malaysia, India, Indonesia, and Turkey. And that one-third number also includes people who ‘somewhat’ agree with that statement. (See page 52 and 53). That Gen-Z figure isn’t broken out by country, so there’s no telling what the actual % is of Gen-Zs in Canada. And the survey, as far as I can tell, includes women as well as men.

    • Chris 12:25 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      Also you’d want to know how many men think they should obey their wives. If the result is similar, then it may just be an expression of marital solidarity.

    • JP 14:01 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      “Obey” is a strong word. People listen or hear out their husbands and wives or partners. Taking them into account doesn’t mean there are commands or requests of obedience. Obedience implies a different kind of relationship and maybe some marriages are like that but I honestly don’t think it’s the norm anywhere anymore in an educated middle class strata.

      For the sarcastic comment about some countries being”bastions of feminism” I assure you there are a lot of backwards ass views held by white men here in Quebec and in North America and it’s increasing at an alarming rate. I’ve encountered these types of men myself. Don’t think yourself better than other people.

    • Kate 14:21 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      JP, that’s what I was thinking. I had just read this Guardian interview with Louis Theroux, who’s made a documentary about the manosphere, so the proliferation of red‑pilling and so forth was in my head.

      Women can never relax and assume that their rights have been won for good, and attitudes permanently adjusted. Men have too much to win from keeping women down.

    • maggie rose 14:47 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      The story about this survey was written up in The Guardian this past Thursday. (not that it’s a race) https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/mar/05/gen-z-men-baby-boomers-wives-should-obey-husbands

    • Chris 14:49 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      >…I assure you there are a lot of backwards ass views held by white men…

      Sure, but there’s such a thing as looking in the aggregate. Some places have more believers in “backwards ass views” (as you put it) than others. Just look at the Pew polling of Muslim countries, scroll down to the “Women’s Rights” section and tell me the opinions of “white men here in Quebec”, overall, are *anywhere* near that.

    • JP 15:20 on 2026-03-07 Permalink

      See this is part of the issue…some of the male commenters here seem really intent on ensuring that we (readers of this blog) know that elsewhere in the world men’s views are horrid (indeed they are/could be in some places) and implying we should all just be happy men’s views here are not anywhere near that.

      In general, maybe stop mansplaining/defending men here/trying to tell women (implicitly) that they should be happy with the status quo here because some might have it worse, and that some survey results are skewed because you noticed countries and people you consider beneath you were included. That was part of what stood out to me in Saintlaurent’s comment…the obvious racism. I know men and women from all of those countries and don’t feel the same way as you. And as a woman of colour, I’m disgusted by your tone.

      The latest rise/wave in anti-women rhetoric is linked to white supremacy and Christian nationalism. Please don’t counter with but in so and so country and in so and so religion….

    • saintlaurent 12:54 on 2026-03-08 Permalink

      > The latest rise/wave in anti-women rhetoric is linked to white supremacy and Christian nationalism. Please don’t counter with but in so and so country and in so and so religion….

      One might say that both of those things can be true at the same time. I 100% agree that your first assertion above is accurate. It is also accurate to say that there are *many* other countries/societies where the status of women is far less advanced that it currently is in places such as, for example, Canada. And Sweden. And Iceland. And Portugal. And even (for the time being), the U.S.

      And despite your breezy assertion that “hey, I have [insert country here] friends that are really enlightened about the status of women,” that neither reflects, nor negates, the *overall* outlook in that particular country, which is what the survey results reflected.

    • Joey 17:34 on 2026-03-08 Permalink

      Our former education minister (and one of two candidates who will become premier next month) thinks it’s great that the government he seeks to lead just fired a handful of women who refuse to let the state tell them whether they can or cannot wear a veil at work. This same government is looking to implement a constitution that will nullify most of the Canadian and Quebec charters of rights and make it illegal for large groups of citizens to contest its laws. But tell me again that the problem is men overseas…

    • saintlaurent 18:29 on 2026-03-08 Permalink

      > But tell me again that the problem is men overseas…

      The problem is *math.” I know this is tough to wrap one’s head around. If a survey samples countries that have a well-documented and societal inclination towards male dominance (e.g., Saudi Arabia, Somalia, Sudan), and then aggregate up an *average* with countries that don’t (e.g., Sweden, Iceland, Portugal), then *of course* you are going to get a clickbait-y headline that one-third of Gen Z’ers (which may, or may not include women – the survey doesn’t specify), agree or *somewhat* agree with the statement in the survey question.

      Are there shitty political parties domestically? Of course there are. They pander to men who drop out of school before Secondary V and then, once they get into their late-20’s, piss and moan that women who went to CEGEP and university don’t want to have anything to do with them. (Nor, in my personal opinion, should they.) Not to mention their pandering to unilingual francophones in the regions with ginned-up, scary imagery of immigrants and Muslims.

      But my problem is with the survey; more specifically, the stupid use of aggregation across multiple and very, very diverse countries to come up with some meaningless figure, and then the news just latches on to that. To be frank, I think Kate got sucked into it by posting the link without performing any critical examination or analysis of the misapplication of data that “informs” the headline.

  • Kate 10:27 on 2026-03-07 Permalink | Reply  

    Some people in St-Henri are taking up a collection to hold a funeral for a man who lived in Sir‑George‑Étienne‑Cartier Park.

     
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